A Sacred Breast Massage is a ritual that allows the woman to receive sensual kundalini (sexual) energy and unconditional love from her partner. In this ritual, she is given time to explore her body without goals. The breast massage is a special type of tantric massage that focuses on the woman’s breasts, which are really the seat of her sexuality and arousal. A tantric massage adds energy healing and tantric coaching to the ecstasy of receiving a nurturing and awakening sensual massage. It creates an environment in which a woman can release stress and feel more alive in her body while staying fully present to her sexual energy.
A Tantric massage is a first step in learning to be a sexual being without going into fantasy or trancing out. It teaches you how to truly feel your body as it is being touched and aroused sexually, to be in the present moment, aroused and alive.

Start your Sacred Breast Massage by creating a safe and luxurious space to perform the massage. You can have soft music playing and candles lit to create an opulent space. Prepare some snacks and drinks to nibble on in case you get hungry during or after the massage.

The receiver’s only job is to stay present to the touch that is being offered, and to breathe. Make this a deep circular breath, in through the nose and out through the mouth, with no pauses between the inhale and exhale. This breath helps keep you in the present moment and also helps move the sexual kundalini and emotional energy through your whole body.

The giver’s only job is to connect and touch in a way that feels good to the giver, not to the person who is receiving the tantric massage. This is one of the most important parts of giving anything. You want to touch your partner as if you are feeling a luxurious fur, and drinking in the sensations of how it feels to rub your hands along this fur. We do this for two reasons. First, if we touch from a place that feels good to us it will feel great to our partner. Second, when we wonder if our touch is feeling good then we are forced into our heads and out of our bodies. Tantra is the art of being sensually in our bodies, not in our heads.

Begin the massage with your lover lying on her belly. Although there are many different massage techniques (look at our tantric massage reference books), the most important thing is to touch more lightly and slowly than you are in the habit of doing. Bring your focus to the touch itself, and use the same circular breath that your partner is doing.

The back massage will come to a natural conclusion if you let go of any goals or time frames. When this happens ask your partner to gently roll over. This is a good time to offer some of those snacks or drinks that you have prepared. Begin the next stage of the massage with your hand resting in stillness on your partner’s heart. Spend a few moments breathing together simply feeling your heart connection. As you feel called, begin to explore the front of your partner’s body.